Believing in oneself to overcome self doubt

Ambitious Woman and her Struggles

November 28, 20253 min read

Story of Ambitious Woman overcoming Self-Doubt, Perfectionism

🐢 “The Turtle and the Master” — A Story About Progress with Purpose

In a quiet coastal village nestled between the sea and the cliffs, a young woman named Maya arrived at a secluded retreat to meet the Wise Master Arav, an NLP Master Practitioner known for his deep understanding of the mind and metaphors of nature.

Maya had been struggling.

She was an ambitious woman with a long list of goals—but each time she took a step forward, self-doubt, perfectionism, and overwhelm pulled her back.

She sat by the ocean, watching the sun-dappled waves when Master Arav approached her and pointed to a turtle gliding gently in the water.

“Tell me, Maya,” he asked with a soft smile, “what do you see?”

She looked closely. “A turtle… slow, calm. But it’s moving forward.”

“Exactly,” he nodded. “That turtle is one of nature’s greatest teachers.”

🧠 The Wisdom of the Turtle

Maya turned to him, curious. “How so, Master?”

“You see,” Arav began, “the turtle doesn’t race. It doesn’t panic when waves rise. It moves with intention, not speed. That’s what most people miss.”

He drew a line in the sand and continued.

“In NLP, we teach that your internal programming—your beliefs, self-talk, and strategies—determine how you act. Most people think rushing is the answer. But turtles? They master the art of small, deliberate steps.”

Maya nodded slowly, intrigued.

“So you're saying I don’t have to hustle hard all the time?” she asked.

Arav laughed gently. “Hustle has its place. But progress that’s aligned with your inner purpose will outlast any sprint. The turtle knows this. It focuses on movement, not perfection. And it never forgets its direction.”

🔄 The Power of Pause and Presence

Maya stared at the turtle again.

“But what about when it hides in its shell? Isn’t that fear?”

“Not at all,” Arav replied. “That’s called integration. Just like you pause to reflect, recharge, or recalibrate. The shell is a sanctuary, not a sign of weakness.”

He looked at her with kind eyes.

“Turtles trust the timing of the tide. When the world says, ‘Go faster,’ they say, ‘Let me feel into this.’ That’s the wisdom of presence.”

🔄 Shift in Maya's Mindset

Something softened inside Maya.

All her life, she’d rushed to arrive somewhere—burning herself out in the process. But now she saw the gift in slowing down, in honoring her pace, her path, and her own inner knowing.

She whispered, “I’ve been judging myself for not being perfect. But maybe I’ve been moving like a turtle… and that’s not a bad thing.”

Arav smiled. “No, Maya. That’s a powerful thing. The turtle doesn’t just move—it embodies belief. It keeps going, even when no one cheers. That’s true self-trust.”

🌊 A New Way Forward

From that day on, Maya didn’t try to become faster.

Instead, she practiced intentional steps—checking in with her values, celebrating small wins, and allowing pauses to become power.

She called it her “Turtle Strategy.”

And whenever doubt crept in, she would remember the wise Master, the ocean, and the slow-moving turtle with unwavering direction…

…still moving forward, one purposeful stroke at a time.

Aruna Ramamurthy | Success Coach | Master Hypnotherapist
Teaches Ambitious Entrepreneurs and Moms To Nurture their Worth, Be Happy, Manifest Abundance
🍃 Yoga, Meditation, Hypnosis

Aruna Ramamurthy

Aruna Ramamurthy | Success Coach | Master Hypnotherapist Teaches Ambitious Entrepreneurs and Moms To Nurture their Worth, Be Happy, Manifest Abundance 🍃 Yoga, Meditation, Hypnosis

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